This one came about as a teasing statement to some straight friends asking questions about my love life as a lesbian. This was back when we were in out late teens, and they [my straight female friends] were talking about not really having had an orgasm while having sex with a guy. Oh, they’d had orgasm, but only those manufactured in an auto-erotic fashion.
Anyway, I was pretty chocked at this since my experiences in same-sex sexual encounters were filled with orgasm for both parties involved. They were talking about how it was okay not to have an orgasm and that it was still fun, and then asked me if I’d ever had an orgasm when having sex with another woman. Umm, yeah, about that… I think I almost laughed as I told them that I was struggling to remember even one time where we didn’t both have at least one orgasm.
They were visible surprised and amazed – even impressed, I think – by this revelation and felt pretty cheated with being in opposite sex relationships with no orgasm. I can’t imagine they were very impressed with their boyfriends that night. Meanwhile, I went home feeling very blessed that night.
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